Almost all girls have been here before. You like a guy. And you drop a few hints too. But somehow, he either doesn’t see the little hints or doesn’t do anything to reciprocate your love for him.
So does he like you? Is he confused? Or is he just not bothered? Why doesn’t he like me back?!
If a guy isn’t acknowledging your attention or doing
anything about it, there’s a pretty good chance that he’s not interested
in you. In all cases, perhaps the best option would be to get over him and move on.
But sometimes, you’d feel a lot better knowing why he’s
ignoring you. So if you’re looking for signs on why he doesn’t like you
back, here are a few good starter thoughts to think about.
You have to remember that all guys are different, and
each of them may have their own reasons for the lack of interest. But in
almost all cases, there’s a good chance his excuse for not falling in
love with you may fit snugly in one of these 20 pointers..
#1 You’re trying too hard to please him. In your
pursuit to make him see the dating potential in you, you may end up
pushing him away by appearing too easy to get. Remember, men like a
chase and they want their woman to be worth a chase.
#2 You’re easily available for him. You may want
to create a lasting impression by being available for him at his beck
and call. Or you may try to spend all the time you can with him. Doing
this doesn’t bring both of you close, instead it can make him hate your
obsessive clinginess. Make him desire you and crave for you by
maintaining some distance.
#3 You’re not his type. There’s nothing you can do
here. All guys have their own preferences in a partner, be it the
height, the color of a girl’s hair or even something as trivial as the
way she laughs. Don’t change yourself for him. Move on and find someone
who likes you for who you are.
#4 You’re in his friend zone. He thinks of you as a
friend. Does he talk about other girls he likes? Does he talk about
gross details you’d only share with your close friends? While it may
seem like a sign of him opening up to you, it could also mean that he
looks at you as just another friend he doesn’t have to impress.
#5 He likes someone else. Sometimes, you may just be a wee bit late in realizing that he’s a great catch. He may like someone else or he may even be in a committed relationship with another great girl.
#6 He’s not $exually attracted to you. Have you been friends for a long
time? While guys look at all girls as $exual objects when they desire
them, they usually avoid $exually sizing up girls who are good friends.
#7 He doesn’t think you’re both compatible. Do you
have a checklist of the things you like and want in a guy? There’s a
good chance that he has his own checklist too. And there may be a few
personality traits about you
that he may not want in his girlfriend. The only way you can ever get to
know his preferences is by subtly asking him.
#8 Differing emotional temperament. Do both of you
think along the same lines and enjoy similar activities? Sometimes, a
guy may think you’re $exy but he may also see a huge difference in
maturity and emotional connection.
#9 He’s g*y. You may think this is a joke, but
many girls have been there and experienced this. Most guys who aren’t
straight are closet g*ys who don’t reveal their $exual preferences to
anyone. Sometimes, they may even date a girl just to fit in!
#10 He has unreasonable standards. Ever met a
cocky guy who thinks he’s Edward Cullen? Well, some guys have very high
opinions about themselves and have unreasonable demands and expectations
from their prospective girlfriend. Forget about this guy, he’ll come
crawling back to you after every girl throws him in the dirt.
#11 Different backgrounds. He may be interested in you, but he may fear that his close ones and friends may not approve of you.
#12 Religious and spiritual views. Yes, we do have a few guys who still give this aspect
a lot of attention. While this may not be a primary reason, clubbed
with other signs, it can help him make up his mind against dating you.
#13 He’s not ready for a relationship. Has he just
broken up with his girlfriend? Or does he like living life like a
player? He may like you, but if he has no interest in committing to
someone, he may pretend like he doesn’t care about you just to avoid
getting into a relationship.
#14 He doesn’t want to ruin the friendship. He may
like you, but he may like you more as a friend. If he thinks both of
you are better off as friends, he may avoid even thinking of you as
anything more because of the fear of losing the special bond both of you
share.
#15 He has no idea that you like him. At times, guys can be pretty thick in the head.
He may have no idea that you even like him. Now most guys are quick to
read the signs, but there are a few odd one who need to hear it before
doing something about it.
#16 You’re creeping him out. Are you clinging on
to him every time you meet him? Do you push all his friends aside just
to stand next to him? Do you pinch his cheek or hold his hands all the
time? Watch out for a restraining order!
#17 There’s a big age difference. Are you a 17
year old girl in love with a 28 year old guy? He may think you’re cute
and $exy and he may even want you badly. But legal thoughts aside, he’d
want to stay away from you in fear of being called a cradle snatcher.
#18 He needs time. A guy may like you, but he may
not be interested in a relationship with you right now. It’s as simple
as that. And there’s nothing you can do about it. He may have different
priorities like starting his own company or focusing on his job. The
reasons could be several, but it all comes down to the simple fact that
he needs time and can’t be yours anytime soon.
#19 He thinks pretty girls are not for keeps.
Some guys stay away from pretty girls. He may have had his share of two
timing girlfriends or may have been stuck in an insecure relationship
with a girl who was too good for him. If he’s scarred by a pretty girl,
he may stay away from anyone who seems too good to be true.
#20 He’s scared to ask you out. This may sound silly, but there are a lot of great guys out there who know that a great girl likes them. But they don’t do anything about it because they’re too lily livered and yellow to man up and ask a girl out.
The federal government is reportedly planning towards an N8 trillion budget for 2016.
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
“The budget process will be zero based, a method of budgeting by which all expenses must be justified for each new budget year. For the Medium Term Expenditure Framework, the actual 2015 budget is N4.4tn, while the proposed 2016 budget will be N7tn to N8tn.Capital expenditure for the 2015 budget is N1.31tn, while the proposed capital expenditure for 2016 is N2tn,” he said.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
The federal government is reportedly planning towards an N8 trillion budget for 2016.
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
“The budget process will be zero based, a method of budgeting by which all expenses must be justified for each new budget year. For the Medium Term Expenditure Framework, the actual 2015 budget is N4.4tn, while the proposed 2016 budget will be N7tn to N8tn.Capital expenditure for the 2015 budget is N1.31tn, while the proposed capital expenditure for 2016 is N2tn,” he said.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
The federal government is reportedly planning towards an N8 trillion budget for 2016.
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
According to Punch, Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo disclosed the news on Thursday in a paper entitled: ‘The economy – Where we are today’, which he delivered at the retreat organised for ministers-designate on Thursday.
“The budget process will be zero based, a method of budgeting by which all expenses must be justified for each new budget year. For the Medium Term Expenditure Framework, the actual 2015 budget is N4.4tn, while the proposed 2016 budget will be N7tn to N8tn.Capital expenditure for the 2015 budget is N1.31tn, while the proposed capital expenditure for 2016 is N2tn,” he said.
- See more at: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2015/11/06/fg-plans-n8-trillion-budget-for-2016/#sthash.stJakdOg.dpuf
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